Some facts of life are sad but true, and one of these facts is that climaxing for many women is anything but easy. In fact, the Cleveland Clinic.
WebMD's sexpert Louanne Cole Weston, PhD, reveals the two-part trick to having an orgasm. About 10% of women have never had an orgasm -- either with a partner or during masturbation. The type of tension that helps women reach orgasm is muscle tension (myotonia).
Orgasmic dysfunction is a condition that occurs when someone has difficulty reaching orgasm. When this condition occurs in women, it’s known as female orgasmic dysfunction. Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm with a partner, even after ample sexual stimulation.
Reaching an orgasm is typically seen as the end goal of sex for both involved and often trying to achieve one can get in the way of actually.
Orgasms are not one-size-fits-all. What works for one woman won't work for everyone and what worked for you with one partner might not work.